Comments on: Somehow Learning to Say NO http://myflirty30s.com/2010/05/somehow-learning-to-say-no/ Fri, 30 Dec 2011 06:50:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Dani_Zaz http://myflirty30s.com/2010/05/somehow-learning-to-say-no/comment-page-1/#comment-708 Dani_Zaz Sun, 30 May 2010 17:18:44 +0000 http://myflirty30s.com/?p=654#comment-708 Leaza, I can so identify with this post. Each day I some how find myself overwhelm and exhausted by all the thing I have committed to. The test your dad send you is awesome and I may have to but that on my fridge. We should all start by saying "No" to one request each day and go from there. Before long, "No" will be as freely used as bathroom tissue. .-= Dani_Zaz´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.mommyexpectations.com/2010/05/tantrums-is-this-why-moms-vacation-at-the-asylum.html" rel="nofollow">Tantrums: Is this why Moms vacation at the Asylum?</a> =-. Leaza, I can so identify with this post. Each day I some how find myself overwhelm and exhausted by all the thing I have committed to. The test your dad send you is awesome and I may have to but that on my fridge. We should all start by saying “No” to one request each day and go from there. Before long, “No” will be as freely used as bathroom tissue.
.-= Dani_Zaz´s last blog ..Tantrums: Is this why Moms vacation at the Asylum? =-.

]]> By: Charlotte http://myflirty30s.com/2010/05/somehow-learning-to-say-no/comment-page-1/#comment-707 Charlotte Fri, 28 May 2010 19:35:00 +0000 http://myflirty30s.com/?p=654#comment-707 There's a line in an Ani Difranco song called "Pick yer Nose" that's always resonated with me (also, it's just a fantastic song): "They wanna take me home to dinner/they think I'm a bitch if I don't go/Seems like the people who actually like me don't allow me to say no..." Sometimes we stretch ourselves so thin and don't want to say no to anyone but the truth is that your real friends will always forgive you for it. I had to cut some ties with people for this reason and it totally sucked but now I get together with girlfriends and we laugh, cry, and enjoy each other's company in a way that's refreshing and genuine. We truly look forward to spending time together. Finding balance in life is never an easy thing but you have to start off small. Your father is the sweetest :) And best of luck learning to say NO! .-= Charlotte´s last blog ..<a href="http://mypixieblog.com/?p=220" rel="nofollow">who am I that I should be vying for your touch?</a> =-. There’s a line in an Ani Difranco song called “Pick yer Nose” that’s always resonated with me (also, it’s just a fantastic song):

“They wanna take me home to dinner/they think I’m a bitch if I don’t go/Seems like the people who actually like me don’t allow me to say no…”

Sometimes we stretch ourselves so thin and don’t want to say no to anyone but the truth is that your real friends will always forgive you for it. I had to cut some ties with people for this reason and it totally sucked but now I get together with girlfriends and we laugh, cry, and enjoy each other’s company in a way that’s refreshing and genuine. We truly look forward to spending time together.

Finding balance in life is never an easy thing but you have to start off small. Your father is the sweetest :) And best of luck learning to say NO!
.-= Charlotte´s last blog ..who am I that I should be vying for your touch? =-.

]]> By: Rene W. http://myflirty30s.com/2010/05/somehow-learning-to-say-no/comment-page-1/#comment-694 Rene W. Mon, 24 May 2010 20:40:30 +0000 http://myflirty30s.com/?p=654#comment-694 No is an absolute to keep life in good balance - good for you! Thanks so much for stopping by my blog :) .-= Rene W.´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/NewOrder/~3/VqokRjWgBmM/body-clutter.html" rel="nofollow">Body Clutter</a> =-. No is an absolute to keep life in good balance – good for you! Thanks so much for stopping by my blog :)
.-= Rene W.´s last blog ..Body Clutter =-.

]]> By: INeedACanoe http://myflirty30s.com/2010/05/somehow-learning-to-say-no/comment-page-1/#comment-682 INeedACanoe Sat, 22 May 2010 17:27:19 +0000 http://myflirty30s.com/?p=654#comment-682 Love this blog! GO YOU on deciding to say "No" more often so you can say "YES" to yourself. Since when is being "Selfish" a bad thing? You can't help the world if your self isn't getting the love it needs, right? Stopping by for the Lady Bloggers Tea PartY!!! Love this blog! GO YOU on deciding to say “No” more often so you can say “YES” to yourself. Since when is being “Selfish” a bad thing? You can’t help the world if your self isn’t getting the love it needs, right? Stopping by for the Lady Bloggers Tea PartY!!!

]]> By: Miranda http://myflirty30s.com/2010/05/somehow-learning-to-say-no/comment-page-1/#comment-676 Miranda Fri, 21 May 2010 03:16:36 +0000 http://myflirty30s.com/?p=654#comment-676 Yay to you! "No" is a complete sentence! :-) Yay to you! “No” is a complete sentence! :-)

]]> By: Casey http://myflirty30s.com/2010/05/somehow-learning-to-say-no/comment-page-1/#comment-675 Casey Thu, 20 May 2010 14:35:18 +0000 http://myflirty30s.com/?p=654#comment-675 Yes! I wholeheartedly agree to you saying no sometimes. I'm working on that too. There should be a support group for the overcommitted. Life goes too fast if you fill every minute. XO Yes! I wholeheartedly agree to you saying no sometimes. I’m working on that too. There should be a support group for the overcommitted. Life goes too fast if you fill every minute. XO

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